The problem with Risk assessment

The Social workers came today. The problem with them is that the came on Monday and said We will com next Monday to have our (hopefully) final meeting. 9 30 am this morning they call and suddenly realize they need to have a chat with my daughter.

Social worker translation to English "We want to see if you are doing what we have asked or are you going to do it all on the last day.

so they turn up and there was nothing for them to moan at the draw that was open last time they cam was now closed and the coffee cup that I had on the side to make a coffee when they turned up had coffee in it.

So when there is nothing to complain about they start doing a Risk Assessment. Social worker translations to english "we have nothing to complain about today so we will give you things that if you do these things there could be a danger. Like if you throw a baby in the air and don't catch the baby the baby will hurt him/her self when she lands on the floor.

so I had a cup of freshly made coffee in my hand, and they was saying that my book case looked top heavy. the top three shelves have adult books on them granted they are mainly autobiographies so mainly chunky books and the bottom three shelves have the kids colouring stuff on them and there reading books.

But to the social worker said it is top heavy and my 2 year old son could pull it over onto himself. a couple of weeks ago I cleaned my carpets and I had to empty the bookshelf to move it but my two year old son could pull it over.

when demonstrating this I put sown my cup of coffee on the floor at the side of the chair I was sitting and you would have thought that I had just picked up my 9 week old daughter and did an action replay of a drop goal in rugby  using her as the ball.

then this woman was on one she saw my tabacco tin on the same chair arm and said that my 2 year old can reach that drug.

I said It is tabacco love not heroine and plus he ain't mastered rolling yet.

the point i am saying is as a parent we do risk assessment  sub consciously every single day and if social workers are coming round to families to tell them if they jump out of a planeat 10,000ft with out a parachute your going to hurt yourself or we don't recommend that you use the air dryer while your still in the shower. That is why there are so many fuck up's like baby P in the world.

Dean T